"Busy" is a word that describes most people I know today. At 73, my mom is busy. My daughters, 12 and 10 are busy. My sons and husband are busy. Any of my friends would use "busy" in response to the question, "how are things?" So, here is the questions. How is that we can savor the first smiles, relish the first steps, celebrate the first days of school, cheer the first recitals, games and performances, soak up the random kisses, hugs and smiles,